Abortion

Well first of all, I am writing this abortion post to get my views out there. I do agree with my sisters first three reasons but not her last. She gave the me the strength to be brave and write this post. I have a different perspective about abortion. I am pro choice and here's why:


My reasons abortion is a option are


1. The pregnancy is a product of rape/incest.


2. There is no chance of survival for the baby.


3. The pregnancy puts the mothers life in danger that can result in the mothers death.


Now my sisters fourth reason is if the mother has a mental illness that makes her an unfit mother, which I strongly disagree with. There is always adoption for those babies.


I was talking to my sister in law and I asked her if she was pro-life or pro-choice. She replied " Prolife, I'm 100% against abortions." I told her "that's good."


She then said "I feel if the parents are old enough to have sex, there old enough to be parents. It's not the babies fault, especially when there are women who can't have kids and would love to be a mommy." I do agree with her statement because I feel that way too. Unless one of my three reasons above is the case for that pregnancy.


If you agreed with any of those three reasons above, your pro-choice as well.

Suffering From PPD

Suffering from postpartum depression really sucks, it doesn't just affect you. It also affects your family. What's worse, is you can't control it. I have been having an extremely hard time with this since my last baby. I'm still not really sure how to deal with it. If anyone has any advice feel free to email me. It has definately had a negative effect on my relationship with my husband.


My poor husband has to deal with me not being me at times, he deals with all the anger, depression, sadness, the guilt I feel. He deals with everything.


My husband Matthew does everything he can to help me out as much as possible when he's home. He's a amazing husband and is always there for me no matter what. I love him so much, he's definately my rock in my times of weakness.


Although I'm sure at times, he has no clue what to do or how to make things better. He always finds a way. I'm so lucky to have the husband I do. Matthew is the best husband I could have ever asked for. He deals with all the crap I put him through and he still loves me.


I love how he makes me feel better. I'm also thankful for my mother in law. She also understands what I'm going through because she's been there. I'm not on medication by choice, however I might need them. I hate to admit I'm not myself, I just want to hide it and pretend it doesn't exist. But the more I pretend its not there, it always shows up.


Its good to have an amazingly supportive husband and very dedicated father to be there for you and your children. Hands down I have the best man in world whether you think so or not. I fall in love with him more and more each day.


PPD is a constant battle, that I will overcome, but until I do. I'm thankful for the people I have who are always there for me no matter what.


Feel free to contact me for advice, about any questions you have or anything. Ill touch up on the PPD later on and let y'all know how I'm doing with it.

Starting Over Again

Ok so yes I deleted everything from my blog. It was for a good reason. I got tired of people trying to look in on me when they don't like me.


I'm a 25 year old woman who is married and has kids. I don't deal with any drama or bullshit. I have grown up and matured a lot. I have also learned a lot about life in general. Don't start shit when you don't even know me.


I'm a mother and wife who is very happy with her life right now, we finally have a three bedroom two bath house with a awesome 2 car garage and a fenced backyard. It's a beautiful home and will do for now until we find something better. I'm couldn't be more happy right now in my life.


I just don't understand how people can sit there and be like "I hate her, she's the biggest bitch you will ever met". I am if you mess with my family, kids, or husband. That is the only time I am a bitch.


But anyways my blog is officially back up for all you readers to read. And if you don't like what I write or what I have to say. Then please don't read it. I write my views, my opinions, my experiences, my thoughts, and overall about my life. If you don't like what you read then don't read it.